Events
One starts at the bar. The other behind a closed door. Choose where you want to start: your ticket is two clicks away.
Choose your night
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A regular bar, rotating cities, no set programme.
You pull up a seat next to people who came for the same reason you did. No one has to explain who they are. Stay an hour or stay all night, that's entirely up to you.
Next: SAT 21 NOV 2026 · The Hague
Black tie, private venue, deliberately kept small.
Multiple rooms, one night and a guest list we keep short. You can see in advance who's coming: the guest list is available from Ambassador. What happens after that stays inside.
Next edition: to be announced
All dates
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Looking for a specific vibe?
A lingerie party, burlesque party, party for couples or just erotic nightlife without the clichés: they're not separate events, but moods within our two standing concepts.
Also on the calendar
Discover meet & greets, workshops and partner events, exclusively in the app.
Small-scale meetups, often organised by members of the community themselves.
Events built around a specific interest or Space from the app.
Open-minded events from external organisations that fit the community. Recognisable by the label 'partner' or 'External'.
Example view: events, names and figures below are fictional, for illustration.
Before you book
For Bar Dates, you can just walk in. For the Club Night, each edition's ticket types specify who's welcome.
From Ambassador level you can see the guest list in the app. Otherwise you'll see how many people have signed up.
Yes, we have our own photographer capturing the atmosphere of the evening. Never focused on individual guests, and we never use recognizable footage of you for promotion or marketing without your explicit consent beforehand. Would rather not be photographed? Just let a host know, and we'll take that into account.
Check whether someone in the community wants to take over your ticket. If not, always send us a message. We're happy to think along, but can't make any guarantees.
Check our general FAQ, or send us a message.
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