Code of conduct

Sixteen principles, one standard.

The Pineapple Club is an open-minded community for people who understand freedom, connection and discretion in an adult way. This code applies to profiles, messages, photos, guest lists, tickets, online interaction and events.

Sixteen principles, one standard.

Last updated: 12 August 2026

01. Start with trust

Use your real name, age, photos and information. Deception and impersonation have no place here.

02. Privacy is the foundation

Everything you see, hear or experience within The Pineapple Club stays within The Pineapple Club.

03. Keep online contact respectful

Spam, unsolicited explicit content and persistent contact after a rejection are not allowed.

04. Consent is essential

Silence, hesitation, politeness, flirting or previous interest are not consent. You can always change your mind after saying yes, even without an agreed safeword.

05. Flirt with finesse

Flirting is welcome. Pushing is not. No one owes you their attention, conversation or time.

06. Respect is not up for discussion

Everyone deserves respect, regardless of gender, appearance, relationship style, background or experience.

07. Follow the dress code

Adhere to the dress code of the event. We may refuse entry if you don't meet it.

08. No cameras without consent

Taking photos or recordings is only allowed with the explicit consent of the people in them.

09. Stay sharp and aware

Excessive alcohol use impairs consent and judgement. Drug use is not permitted.

10. Read the room

Respect the energy of a Space, the instructions of hosts, and the comfort of other members.

11. Discretion doesn't stop at the door

Meeting someone through The Pineapple Club doesn't mean you may approach that person outside the community.

12. No gossip, no exposure

The Pineapple Club is not a place for gossip, judgement or exposure. Other people's choices are not yours to discuss.

13. The team maintains oversight

Hosts, moderators and security uphold the standard. Follow their instructions.

14. Speak up about discomfort

Reports about members or inappropriate behaviour can be made before, during or after an event, and are handled with care.

15. Zero tolerance

We do not tolerate violence, threats, coercion, stalking, intimidation, discrimination and abuse of privacy.

16. The Pineapple standard

Curious over pushy. Bold over reckless. Discreet over cold. Open-minded within respectful boundaries.

Consequences

Violations may result in a warning, limited functionality, removal of content, exclusion from an event, suspension, termination of your membership, or a permanent refusal of access.

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