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Community, events, etiquette, meeting in style.
Starting an open relationship: agreements, rules and jealousy
No fixed roadmap, but a few questions that make the conversation easier. Concrete agreements, handling jealousy, and when to check in together.
The Pineapple Club· 1 Oct 2026Polyamory in practice: hierarchy, metamours and throuples
More than one loving relationship at once raises practical questions. Hierarchy, metamours, and how a throuple compares to two separate relationships.
The Pineapple Club· 1 Oct 2026Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent: how to try it together
Two simple questions that make touch and attention easy to talk about, with three exercises to try tonight.
The Pineapple Club· 30 Sep 2026Parenclub or a private party: which fits you?
They're often mentioned in the same breath, but they're not the same thing. The concrete difference, and how to figure out what fits you.
The Pineapple Club· 30 Sep 2026Swinging, polyamory or an open relationship: what's the difference?
Three terms that are often used interchangeably, but don't mean the same thing. The concrete difference, with a comparison table.
The Pineapple Club· 11 Sep 2026For single men at The Pineapple Club
Access for single men works differently with us. We explain why, and why safety, balance and trust come before speed.
The Pineapple Club· 9 Sep 2026First time at The Pineapple Club
What to expect the first time you come by: no surprises, but a warm welcome.
The Pineapple Club· 13 Aug 2026For single women at The Pineapple Club
The questions single women often ask us: will I feel welcome, and what about my safety? An honest answer.
The Pineapple Club· 2 Sep 2026Why we work with hosts
A good community is about genuine connection, safety and ease. Our hosts make the difference, from welcoming guests to the atmosphere during the evening itself.
The Pineapple Club· 22 Aug 2026Stay in the loop
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