Bar Dates
Stylish meetups, no fuss.
Our most low-key concept: a night at a regular bar, in rotating cities. No set programme, no pressure.
Why Bar Dates
The easiest first step.
Accessible
An accessible alternative to clubs or private gatherings, with no barrier to entry.
A stylish start
Nights at carefully chosen bars, in rotating cities.
Meet & connect
At your own pace, with no set programme or pressure.
How it feels
What a Bar Date actually looks like.
No name tags, no group assignments, no mandatory icebreaker round. You pull up a seat in an ordinary bar, somewhere in the city, among people who are there for the same open-minded atmosphere. You talk to whoever you want, for as long as you want, and nobody panics if you'd rather just have a drink and watch. Regulars and newcomers mixed together, from couples just starting to explore to people who've been to several editions. That's exactly what makes it the easiest first introduction to The Pineapple Club: low-key enough to show up alone, stylish enough to take seriously.
Practical
What you need to know.
- No membership needed
- Dresscode: smart casual
- Ticket price varies per edition and city, see current prices
- 21+, verified at the door
- Exchanging contact info is fine, never required
Enjoying the vibe? Take the step up to The Pineapple Club Night, our private flagship concept.
Looking for a specific angle instead? Read more about erotic nightlife without the clichés, or a party for couples at your own pace: both fit a Bar Dates night just as well as The Pineapple Club Night.
Part of our open-minded parties in the Netherlands.
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