For couples
An exclusive party for couples and single women.
Every request is personally reviewed for style, respect and intent.
Why exclusive
Every request is personally reviewed.
This is how we guard style, respect and intent, even as the community grows.
For couples
Share your curiosity together, in a thoughtfully designed evening with theme, music and connection.
For single women
Expect extra attention from our hosts, who ensure respectful treatment from the very first moment; single women are also warmly welcome to attend solo.
Our hosts
Count on hosts who review requests, verify where possible, and build a community based on trust and safety.
Two concepts
Your pace, your choice.
Choose Bar Dates, a relaxed evening with no membership requirement, or The Pineapple Club Night, our exclusive flagship concept.
What to expect
Come together, decide together.
A party for couples doesn't mean you're tied to each other all night, it means you decide together what the evening looks like. Talk to other couples, take things at your own pace, or just observe: there's no script to follow. Hosts keep an eye on the atmosphere, so no one feels pressured, not even by their own partner.
Dress code? Depends on the concept: smart casual at Bar Dates, black tie with a touch of burlesque at The Pineapple Club Night. Neither asks you to wear anything you're not comfortable in.
Who is this for? Couples are welcome everywhere. Single women too, with extra attention from our hosts, and always welcome to come solo. Single men can simply sign up; we monitor the balance and may pause it temporarily.
How does admission work? Not automatic. An application at /en/apply/ takes about ten minutes, gets personally reviewed by our team, and receives an answer within two weeks. We look at who you are as a couple and why you want to be here, not just whether the form is filled in.
Part of our open-minded parties in the Netherlands. Other formats: erotic nightlife, burlesque party and lingerie party.
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