Lingerie party
A lingerie party unlike any you've known.
Deliberate presentation, a moodboard in advance, and an evening that's ultimately about meeting people.
Dress code
A lingerie party unlike any you've known.
It's about intention, not exposure. You consciously choose your presentation and explore a side of yourself you don't always show in everyday life. Every event has its own moodboard in advance. Lingerie is welcome, themed outfits with the right styling too, everyday clothing, sneakers or clothing outside the theme are not.
- Red velvet and candlelight
- Entertainment shows
- Moodboard in advance per event
- The evening is about meeting people, not about the dress code itself
Two concepts
Cocktail chic or black tie.
Bar Dates works with an accessible ‘cocktail chic’ dress code, open to non-members. The Pineapple Club Night is more exclusive and members-only.
What to expect
Intention, not obligation.
Ahead of every lingerie event we share a moodboard: a sense of the mood, not a mandatory outfit checklist. It's about conscious presentation, not showing as much as possible. Whoever feels more comfortable in something understated is just as welcome as whoever goes all out, as long as the choice is a conscious one.
Dress code? Loosely based on that specific event's moodboard, otherwise smart casual at Bar Dates or black tie with a touch of burlesque at The Pineapple Club Night.
Who is this for? Couples are welcome everywhere. Single women too, with extra attention from our hosts, and always welcome to come solo. Single men can simply sign up; we monitor the balance and may pause it temporarily.
How does admission work? Not automatic. An application at /en/apply/ takes about ten minutes, gets personally reviewed by our team, and receives an answer within two weeks. We look at who you are and how you picture the vibe of a lingerie night, not just whether the form is filled in.
Part of our open-minded parties in the Netherlands. Other formats: erotic nightlife, party for couples and burlesque party.
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